Fitness and Choices

You have the perfect plan in place and the house is full of healthy foods. You are READY to rock this new fitness and weight loss. You get after it. Week one is hard, but you do it. Week two? The kids have practice every day this week. There are two basketball games....

It Can Be Hard To Set Smart Goals

Did you set a big goal this New Years? You were going to get it done in 2018. How many times in the past have you set a huge goal such as to lose 50 pounds or exercise 5 days a week, only to fall off the wagon a few weeks (or usually days) later? Why did you fail? A...

Mind Over Matter!

Mind over matter!  I find myself clinging to that mantra a lot as a FireWife.  Especially with the history my firefighter husband and I endured.  The past can never truly be buried deep enough.  It always seems to nudge it's way through my thoughts as I go about my...

Wait, you BOTH work shift work?

A little over 2 years ago, I got this crazy idea to apply for a different type of job than I had previously been working.  For years, I worked at the local community hospital as an ED nurse on an "as needed" basis.  As our children got a little older, I started...

Laundry Basket Fortress

It's a never ending cycle. Wash. Dry. Throw it in a basket. Maybe take it upstairs. If you're lucky you have a main floor laundry. Sometimes you have to scramble 2 minutes before needing to leave to find the matching sock for the three year old and oh wait..the baby...

It’s all about community and connection.

Knowing you aren’t the only wife out there feeling what you are feeling is priceless. A community of other firewives that get your day to day can make a world of difference.

It’s about choosing the life you want and enjoying the life you are living. Not waiting to be happy down the road, but right now.

You’re not alone in this awesome journey.

I understand how it sucks to have plans change, go alone to important family events, be alone on holidays and feel like a single mom.


Ditch the Whining

Whining about all the crap that we have no control over gets old. It ruins relationships and makes you miserable for so many reason. How about you give up on the whining and get to making changes?

How we choose to live this life is up to us. Instantly download the free “Don’t be a whiny firewife” ebook now and get tips for being happier every day.