We dont do date night!

  Early in our marriage I was a firm believer in frequent date nights. I had been lead to believe that a sign of a healthy marriage was a weekly date night. As you can imagine, this caused a lot of undue stress.  It wasn’t long before I became extremely...

Three Steps to Save Mom’s Summer Sanity

 The countdown has started. My two big kids have less than three weeks until summer vacation. During the school year, my day time hours run smoothly. With just me and a toddler at home, it's easier to keep the living areas clean and stay caught up on the laundry....

Firewife Retreat and Conference Waitlist

We've been talking about it and it's time to get serious. I need to find out how many are truly interested and able to attend a retreats, so I can find the right size house to rent. Please, also sign up to the waitlist if you are interested in a firewife conference. I...

The Stepmom Coach Black Friday Deals

A month ago I did a Facebook live with my friend Claudette - The Stepmom Coach to talk about her "Becoming A More Confident Stepmom" ecourse that was included in a bundle we were both participating in. I know many of you FireWives are stepmoms and could use the...

Fitness and Choices

You have the perfect plan in place and the house is full of healthy foods. You are READY to rock this new fitness and weight loss. You get after it. Week one is hard, but you do it. Week two? The kids have practice every day this week. There are two basketball games....

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FireWife Club

Join a Group of FireWives That Get YOU

Volunteer FireWife, career FireWife, Wildland FireWife, or combination of it all FireWife, we all share a similar bond of loving a firefighter that cares about taking care of our community and our world.

We get so busy taking care of everyone that we forget or we purposely decide not to work on ourselves.

The FireWife Club will be an evolving group dedicated to helping you be your most awesome you.

Firelife Gratitude

You need to choose to live with no regrets and own your days. Own how you think. Own how you react. Own your happiness.


Do you need a place to talk to other wives in the firelife? We all need support as we go through this journey. 

30 Days to Happier You

It’s not easy to often think our feelings should be second to the greater good. I’m here to tell you we never should feel that way.


Spinning in circles is frustrating. Sometimes there is just a lot on your plate and you need an unbiased ear to listen and help you work life out.