We dont do date night!

  Early in our marriage I was a firm believer in frequent date nights. I had been lead to believe that a sign of a healthy marriage was a weekly date night. As you can imagine, this caused a lot of undue stress.  It wasn’t long before I became extremely...

Three Steps to Save Mom’s Summer Sanity

 The countdown has started. My two big kids have less than three weeks until summer vacation. During the school year, my day time hours run smoothly. With just me and a toddler at home, it's easier to keep the living areas clean and stay caught up on the laundry....

Firewife Retreat and Conference Waitlist

We've been talking about it and it's time to get serious. I need to find out how many are truly interested and able to attend a retreats, so I can find the right size house to rent. Please, also sign up to the waitlist if you are interested in a firewife conference. I...

The Stepmom Coach Black Friday Deals

A month ago I did a Facebook live with my friend Claudette - The Stepmom Coach to talk about her "Becoming A More Confident Stepmom" ecourse that was included in a bundle we were both participating in. I know many of you FireWives are stepmoms and could use the...

Fitness and Choices

You have the perfect plan in place and the house is full of healthy foods. You are READY to rock this new fitness and weight loss. You get after it. Week one is hard, but you do it. Week two? The kids have practice every day this week. There are two basketball games....

Life Can Be Extra Difficult As A Firewife

Sign up for the free 30 day challenge


It’s not easy being a FireWife. It’s not easy to often think our feelings should be second to the greater good or that we are selfish because we want our spouse to be home with us and not out helping people. But, I’m here to tell you we aren’t second to anything and we never should feel that way.

Take the next 30 days to prove to yourself that you deserve to be happy and find out why.

Believe me, we’re going to make our FireLife all the better for being happier.

When we are happy, we make those around us better people and happier. Don’t you want to spread the happiness around?

This is a free challenge and I hope you will work on the quick action steps for the next 30 days and let me know the changes you see happen. I respond to all emails personally.