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Firewife Retreat and Conference Waitlist

We've been talking about it and it's time to get serious. I need to find out how many are truly interested and able to attend a retreats, so I can find the right size house to rent. Please, also sign up to the waitlist if you are interested in a firewife conference. I...

The Stepmom Coach Black Friday Deals

A month ago I did a Facebook live with my friend Claudette - The Stepmom Coach to talk about her "Becoming A More Confident Stepmom" ecourse that was included in a bundle we were both participating in. I know many of you FireWives are stepmoms and could use the...

Fitness and Choices

You have the perfect plan in place and the house is full of healthy foods. You are READY to rock this new fitness and weight loss. You get after it. Week one is hard, but you do it. Week two? The kids have practice every day this week. There are two basketball games....

It Can Be Hard To Set Smart Goals

Did you set a big goal this New Years? You were going to get it done in 2018. How many times in the past have you set a huge goal such as to lose 50 pounds or exercise 5 days a week, only to fall off the wagon a few weeks (or usually days) later? Why did you fail? A...

Mind Over Matter!

Mind over matter!  I find myself clinging to that mantra a lot as a FireWife.  Especially with the history my firefighter husband and I endured.  The past can never truly be buried deep enough.  It always seems to nudge it's way through my thoughts as I go about my...

serenity firewifeI’m sure many of you are laughing at this choice of word. Me, serene? bahahaha, yes I can laugh right along with you.

But, serenity is something to work for. Oddly enough, I’m way more calm than I was 10 years ago. Definitely more calm than I was 20 years ago. Serenity is a work in progress I think.

We know the old adage that if something is going to break it will be on shift day. Hence, we need to pull out that inner calm, no matter how far down it’s buried.

When shit hits the fan, try to stop and take a deep breath. Give it a good few seconds. If that doesn’t put a stop to the fire shooting out your eyes, then maybe they deserve whatever hits them 😉 lol

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Sarcastically working through the craziness that is life as a FireWife! Hope you also join us on the social media accounts where we chat all night long!

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